Fighting with parents

Parents want you to do the things against your will. They want you to be ideal, correct, tolerant, obedient, and easy to get along with. You get up every morning with the single thought about the next day of fighting with you parents. Definitely, this relationship with your parents is not something you want, but what can you do? They are so stubborn and silly to understand you!

Actually, this way of thinking is a little bit... strange... Accept this situation as the first adult examine. The matter is that when you were a child, your parents controlled every sphere of your life for the sole reason – you were too inexperienced and immature to make your own decisions. That is why they used to control you and tell you what you should do. But you are growing up and changing. Unfortunately, accepting you as an adult person is not an easy matter, but possible. Try to compromise with your parents. I have a friend whose mother is the strictest woman in the world. She is not able to feel, I guess. Perhaps, she does not have emotions. But even this woman is able to understand the logical and calm statement. Perhaps, it is not possible from the very first time, but later, after a hundred of mistakes and attempts.

I've wasted the months to suggest my parents an idea that I do not like basketball. I hated sport. I preferred meeting my friends, reading, studying and many other activities, but not those ones which my parents liked. I've provided many discussions with my parents to make them respect my opinion and accept me as an adult independent person who is able to make my own decisions.

Calm and self-assured tone is able to assist you in your hard work of "bringing-up parents". Perhaps, promising to do your room might help you to ask for an additional hour with your friends.

So, speak to each other, enjoy the communication and do not give up until the last chance.